The
Never Ending Crisis of Sexual Abuse[i]
Richard G. Malloy, S.J., Ph.D.
University Chaplain, The University of Scranton
To
understand what happened in past decades in the Catholic Church, one must
realize this: what previously had been considered a sin came to be understood
as a crime. What once was seen as a
treatable, compulsive condition, understood as something to be handled quietly
by an institution’s authorities, came to be seen as something best dealt with
by the Criminal Justice System, with the full light of the mass media shinning
on the proceedings. Cultural mores
shifted, obviously for the better.
Given the revelations of priests’ sexual
abuse of minors, all Catholics are challenged to try and comprehend the whole
tragic morass surrounding clerical sex abuse that has been revealed in the past
decades. Let us pray for and support
victims, try to understand all involved, and strive to construct a church
wherein sexual abuse of children never happens again.
Fools rush in where angels fear to
tread. Well, no one ever called me an
angel. And it may be foolish to try and
say anything in the today’s context that simply doesn’t echo the endless
charges of “cover-up,” “insensitive / incompetent / criminal bishops,” or “the
church still doesn’t ‘get it.’ ” Yet, I
hope thinking through the crisis will be more helpful than self-righteously and
loudly condemning the hierarchy.
First, know that I, and any sane and
sensitive priest, hate and abhor what was done by priests to innocent
children. One child molested is one too
many. The pedophiles and ephebophiles in
the church have caused incalculable harm to both the children they abused and
violated, and all those torn apart by collateral damage. SNAP (Survivors Network of Those Abused by
Priests)[ii]
and other organizations deserve our thanks for forcing all to deal with these
realities.
In 1985, as the disturbing reports of
serial child molester Fr. Gilbert Gauthe of Louisiana became known, due in
large part to the courageous journalism of Jason Berry and the National
Catholic Reporter, I was in theology studies.
Those were turbulent times for those preparing for ordination. Liberation theology and questions like
women’s ordination were being hotly debated.
Gauthe’s case raised even more questions. Those of us who were given the grace to
persevere to ordination knew we were in for a rough ride. Little did we know.
After ordination in 1988, I was sent to
our Jesuit parish in Camden, NJ. Early
in his tenure, Bishop McHugh called all the priests working in the Camden
diocese to a mandatory meeting. He let
it be known in no uncertain terms: things were changing. We were told if there was an accusation
against any of us, we were on our own.
Prepare to get a lawyer. Do not
expect any preferential treatment from the diocese. Civil authorities would be informed. I was impressed. I thought, “Good. This is being handled. Cases like Gauthe’s won’t happen again.”
Was I wrong. The efforts of bishops like McHugh were too
little, too late. The 2002-2003 daily
front page excoriations of the church burst the festering boil. Under mounting pressure, the bishops authorized
an independent study. The John Jay
College of Criminal Justice found that between 1950 and 2002, 4% of Catholic
priests had been accused of sexual abuse.
10,667 people reported being sexually abused as children by 4,392
priests, about 4% of all 109,694 priests.[iii] The study also found that the rate of
pedophilia in the church was no higher than in other institutions in
society. The sad case of Jerry Sandusky
at Penn State revealed that many other institutions and revered figures like
Coach Joe Paterno acted much the way Catholic Bishops too often did. And the church, far from covering up, had
reams of documentation about these cases.
Many other institutions keep no records at all. If someone complains to a public school
district they may well hear, “You’re asking about Mr. Miller who taught 2nd
grade in 1979? Don’t know what happened
to him.”
I don’t blame the media for focusing
attention on the crimes, but when ABC Evening News reports (03/29/10), relying
on www.bishopsaccountablitiy.org, that 5%-10% of priests “are abusers,” they
contradict the most authoritative study done on the issue. Still, the 96% of priests, the 99.9% of the
sisters, and the vast majority of the laity, who never hurt a child also have
had to confront what all this means.
Newsweek
reported in April of 2010 that Catholic priests’ rate of abusing children is no
more than other institutions: “…experts who study child abuse say they see
little reason to conclude that sexual abuse is mostly a Catholic issue. ‘We don't see the Catholic Church as a hotbed
of this or a place that has a bigger problem than anyone else,’ said Ernie
Allen, president of the National Center for Missing and Exploited
Children. ‘I can tell you without
hesitation that we have seen cases in many religious settings, from traveling
evangelists to mainstream ministers to rabbis and others’ ”[iv]
The problem is massive and extends far
beyond the church’s walls. 25% of girls
and 16% of boys will be sexually abused before their eighteenth birthday, and
20% of all children will suffer abuse before the age of eight. There are 39 million in the USA today who
have survived sexual abuse in their childhood.
30% to 40% suffer abuse at the hands of a family member, or an older
child. Only 10% are abused by strangers.[v]
In 2007, the Associated Press reported
that, “Sexual Misconduct Plagues US Schools.”
In a study that covered five years, there were over 2,500 cases “in which
educators were punished for actions from bizarre to sadistic.” Even though the vast majority of the over 3
million schools teacher are dedicated and devoted the children entrusted to
their care, almost every day in our schools, there are three cases of an
abusing teacher. The “much larger
problem [is] a system that is stacked against victims. Most of the abuse never gets reported. Those cases reported often end with no action.
Cases investigated sometimes cannot be proven, and many abusers have several
victims. And no one – not the schools,
not the courts, not the state or federal governments – has found a surefire way
to keep molesting teachers out of classrooms.”[vi]
To understand what happened in past
decades in the Catholic Church, one must realize this: what previously had been
considered a sin came to be understood as a crime. What once was seen as a treatable, compulsive
condition, understood as something to be handled quietly by an institution’s
authorities, came to be seen as something best dealt with by the Criminal Justice
System, with the full light of the mass media shinning on the proceedings. Cultural mores shifted, obviously for the
better.
Back when homosexual activity was
considered a crime, pedophilia (Andrew Sullivan and others call it “child
rape”) committed by a priest was a sin.
In the 1960s and 1970s, police were routinely sent out to try and catch
homosexuals in the act and arrest them.
Today, homosexuality is accepted by large sectors of society. Several years ago the military dropped their
“Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy and several states soon allowed Gay
marriage. In 2015, the Supreme Court of
the U.S. ruled that marriage for homosexual persons is a constitutional
right. In contrast, priest pedophiles
are those who can never be understood, nor forgiven, and any bishop that did
not defrock a priest immediately after the first allegation is considered
guilty of cover-up.
Priests who abuse children are today
justly treated as criminals. Their
pedophiliac condition, whether caused by their being molested as children
themselves, or perversely freely chosen, results in arrest and jail time. The children molested by priests can sue the
Catholic church, a possibility denied many children molested by adults in other
institutions. Statute of limitation laws
are overridden, and the criminal justice system yields to cries for vengeance
or justice depending on your perspective.
The reason given: many so traumatized cannot come forward in the time
allotted. The Church has paid billions
and the bills keep piling up. Much of
the money comes from people in the pews who did no wrong. Millions go to lawyers who are not working
pro bono.
The constantly repeated charge of cover-up
masks the fact that many bishops and religious superiors were following the
standard operating procedures of the times. In 1961, John Kennedy, a Catholic, had to
justify his right to run for President.
In that year, if a Bishop McGillicuddy had taken a Fr. Smith down to the
local precinct and told the Police Sergeant to book him, and that Johnny the
altar boy would soon be brought in by his parents to press charges, everyone
would have said the bishop was crazy. In
1952, 1966, 1974 or 1982, neither parents nor police were publicly decrying how
bishops handled these matters. In those
times, if journalists knew about it, they were not saying any more than they
did about John Kennedy’s multiple marital infidelities. Often money was given to either pay for
needed therapy for the victim, or in some small measure, to try and make
amends. Now such payments are
categorized as “hush money.” Rene
Girard’s cogent analysis of scapegoating is applicable here. We need someone to blame, someone to punish:
bishops are the most convenient target.
Well into the late 1980s, church leaders
were being told by therapists at rehab centers that priests with this “problem”
had been “treated” and could be placed back in ministerial positions, sometimes
with the caveat that the priest would have no contact with minors. What seems so horrible now, the moving of
priests from parish to parish, did not seem so crazy in 1978. That was the year The North American Man/Boy
Love Association (NAMBLA) was formed. It
is incredible that that organization still exists and has a website, but in
1978 it seems their views were worth at least being given a hearing.[vii] To think or speak as if this problem exists
in the Catholic Church alone is disingenuous.
Again, just google “Penn State, Joe Paterno and Jerry Sandusky.” Experts opine that ten to twenty percent of
males in the U.S. abuse sexually.[viii]
It was not the fact of the matter that
bishops were sitting around conspiring to actively encourage priests to go and
molest more children. Bishops, parents,
cops, and everyone else in the decades preceding the sexual revolution of the
late 1960s, did not deal openly or forthrightly about sexual matters. Bishops probably wanted to handle these
matters quickly and quietly and get on to other concerns. Does this indicate 1) a “cover-up” evidencing
a callous disregard for the welfare of children, 2) a justifiable fear of
gravely harming the church by being open about this issue, or 3) in hindsight,
bewildering incompetency? Probably a
combination of the second (and in their defense, note how these revelations
have hurt the church) and third (no one suggests the bishops did anything
right). Still, I hesitate to charge them
with the first.
The vast majority of bishops were good and
decent men, and none of them had any training, nor much help, in dealing with
sexual deviants. Nor were they schooled
in the intricacies of public relations in a world with a 24/7 news cycle. A Jesuit would get appointed provincial and
in a matter of weeks go from decades of scholarly pursuits to a six year term
as an administrator of some 600 to 1000 men, without a day of management
training. They cared deeply about
children, but what could we expect them to have done, given the times and
cultural cues available to them? They
did not act any differently than the family who kept a close eye on Uncle Eddie
at Thanksgiving or the school principal who kept Mr. Smith away from the first
and second graders. If the bishops and
provincials had covered this up, there would not be hundreds of thousands of
incriminating letters and other documents in church files.
Even parents were not always immediately
outraged. Even parents did not initially
call for priests to be put in jail. The
first reaction to Gauthe was to get him “help.”
In 1972, Gauthe was caught after molesting three boys. Parents confronted him. In his deposition Gauthe stated, “They simply
asked me if I had been involved with any of the children, and I said, ‘Yes.’
And I asked them if they would help me find a good psychiatrist.” A lady made an appointment for him. “And,” he said, “I simply kept it.” Gauthe said the parents paid for these
sessions, which lasted several months and that he did not report them to Church
superiors.”[ix]
In the 1980s, a Jesuit in California moved
to Los Angeles where he was able to more easily and often visit his brother and
his family. He was caught molesting his
nieces by his brother, an LAPD police officer.
His brother, a cop, didn’t arrest him.
He told him he needed to get help.
“I threw him out of my house,” Larry Lindner said. He urged his brother
to seek treatment but did not report him to authorities. “I trusted him,” Larry Lindner said. “I told
him, ‘I’m not going to ruin your life or ruin your career. Just go get help.’
... I should have had him arrested right there. But he’s still my brother, and
I did what I thought a brother should do.’ ”[x]
Many bishops who acted like those parents
in the Gauthe case or Officer Linder are being castigated for not acting as
omniscient CEOs. In reality, the
relationship of bishop to priest ought to be more like brother to brother than
boss to employee. The bishops had to
consider and care for all the church: the victims, the victimizers, and
everyone else who would be affected by revelations of abuse.
In 1990, a good and balanced movie, Judgment, starring Keith Carradine and
Blythe Danner presented the excruciatingly difficult choices bishops
confronted. In one scene, the bishop
wants to reach out pastorally to the family of a child abused by a priest
character based on the real life Gilbert Gauthe. The lawyers tell the bishop if he meets with the
family he will be admitting guilt. The
lawyers tell him that he can meet with the victim, or he can keep his
diocese. He can’t do both.
Even Spotlight,
the Oscar winning movie dealing with the Boston Globe’s crusading campaign to
uncover clerical sexual abuse in Boston in 2002, recognized that the Globe had
had the information years before. They
had not printed the revelations in bold headlines on page one.
In the age before Oprah and reality TV’s
constant self-revelation, the world and church felt that some things were not
aired in public, much the way universities don’t place date rape info in their
recruitment materials, nor do banks highlight the history of any embezzlers in
their midst.
Bishops often had to respond to the needs
of all involved. Victims, victimizers,
and the larger community and church.
Many people didn’t want victims’ suffering aired publicly. Parents didn’t want their child’s rape known
throughout the parish and neighborhood.
Today, with 24/7 news cycles, and unscrupulous news outlets, victims’
suffering can be compounded For example,
one of Jerry Sandusky’s victims was bullied so badly he had to leave school.[xi]
Today, some bishops are unjustly held to a
standard neither they, nor anyone else at the time, expected them to meet. Many of those bishops are dead. Many who were bishops and provincials in the
1980s gradually began to realize a radically different approach was needed,
thanks to their heeding courageous voices like Fr. Andrew Greeley’s and Fr. Tom
Doyle’s. But, frankly, the giving a
position of authority and power to Bishop Law, who continued old practices well
beyond the time that things had changed, is insane and disgraceful.
Since 2002, the church has had a policy of
zero tolerance. If anyone accuses a
priest, the priest is immediately removed from ministry until the matter is
resolved. Although false accusations are
rare, priests are completely vulnerable to whoever wants to make a baseless
claim. Priests must never engage in any
kind of abuse. The Church’s Essential
Norms document states: “When even a single act of sexual abuse by a priest or
deacon is admitted or is established after an appropriate process in accord
with canon law, the offending priest or deacon will be removed permanently from
ecclesiastical ministry, not excluding dismissal from the clerical state, if
the case so warrants.”[xii]
The priests named in the PA Grand Jury report who were accused post 2002 were often immediately removed from ministry. And the PA Grand Jury Report has said there were 301 predatory priests. But the report doesn't say how many priest served in PA in the past 70 years. 301 is what percentage of total priests? Higher or lower than the 4% reported by the John Jay Report of 2004? And again, one child abused is one too many. No abuse is acceptable. But were all 301 priests in the report equally horrific? Several of the 301 contest the allegations. Some offenses, though sick, sad, sinful, shameful and criminal, were less harmful than the completely heinous examples. Still, no one can judge the depth or degree of a victim's pains except the victim.
The problem isn’t zero tolerance. The problem isn’t celibacy. 96% of the priests were not pedophiles, while
many married men are. The problem isn’t
homosexuality. The investigators from
the second John Jay College of Criminal Justice report on the causes and
contexts of the crisis, told the bishops in 2011 that there is no connection
between homosexual priests and pedophilia.[xiii]
The high incidence of boys being
molested by priests was due to the fact that priests had easier access to
boys. Fr. Bill taking the altar boys on
a camping trip was considered wonderful for the boys and he was considered a
“great guy.” If Fr. Bill had suggested
taking the fifth and sixth grade girls on a camping trip, people would have
thought that weird. The problem isn’t
callous and insensitive bishops or incompetent provincials. Most of them did the best they could with the
resources and within the cultural mores available at the time. The problem is what do we do now and in the
future?
The amazing reality is that so many
Catholics are sticking with the church.
Several years ago, in the 2000s, I presided at a first communion
celebration. A packed church
accompanying some 40 second graders; the boys looking cool in blue suits and
the girls in an array of white dresses, the parents hovering as they walk up
with their child to receive the Lord in the Eucharist, the grandparents,
brothers and sisters, the teachers and the school’s big kids in the choir and
acting as altar servers: the church continues.
We need new Catherines of Siena, Francises
of Assisi, Ignatiuses of Loyola, Dorothy Days, Thomas Mertons, Oscar Romeros
and Dan Berrigans to reinvigorate and renew the church. We especially need new St. Mary Mackillops,
the courageous Josephite sister who stood up for abused children in 1870s
Australia. She was excommunicated for
standing against a priest who was sexually abusing children in Australia. The priest was removed, but a priest friend
of his carried out a vendetta against St. Mary MacKillop and her sister
Josephites. Eventually, she was
exonerated, but the stain of an intrinsically disordered patriarchal, clerical
system remains.[xiv]
The Catholic Church is the largest private
provider of social services in the United States. We cannot allow catholic schools, soup
kitchens, nursing homes, hospitals, social outreach, family service
organizations, immigration services, prison ministries, AIDS ministries, and
myriad other local, national and global charitable institution to fall victim
to the present crisis.
The thousands of children harmed can never
be forgotten or ignored. But let’s not
compound the crimes of a small percentage of priests by letting their actions
destroy not just the souls and lives of too many children, but also the mission
and ministries of the whole church.
In 1975 the Society of Jesus defined the Jesuit
mission as “The service of faith of which the promotion of Justice is an
absolute requirement. For reconciliation
with God demands the reconciliation of people with one another” (32nd
General Congregation, 1975). Many
quickly picked up on the phrase “faith and justice” or the “faith that does
justice.” But the reconciliation theme
dropped out and received much less attention.
The Good News is that by 2008 the 36th General Congregation
defined the Jesuit mission as being “Companions in a Mission of Reconciliation
and Justice.”[xv]
Today, and at all times, we need to do justice and
work toward reconciliation. How to
reconcile over the issues of how the sexual abuse of children was addressed by
the church as an institution, how to find some way to get to forgiveness… these
are huge challenges for us as the pilgrim people of God, as the Body of
Christ. Yet, these are challenges we
must meet. Issues like abortion, the use
of artificial means of birth control, homosexuality and same sex marriage, on
and on, call us to be agents of reconciliation.
Genocides, economic inequality and pollution of the planet call us to be
agents of reconciliation. Pedro Arrupe
once said that ours is, “A Planet to heal.”
May we courageously and generously embrace the needed work of repenting,
recreating and rebuilding. “All
this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ, and has given us
the ministry of reconciliation” (2 Cor 5:18).
[i] Much of this reflection on the Clergy Sex
Abuse Crisis appeared in Richard G. Malloy, S.J.,
Being on Fire: The Top Ten essentials of Catholic Faith (Maryknoll,
NY: Orbis Books, 2014), 77-86.
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